[identity profile] taffimai.livejournal.com 2007-11-16 01:21 am (UTC)(link)
Does him being gay really matter?

[identity profile] dameruth.livejournal.com 2007-11-16 01:26 am (UTC)(link)
Naaah, not for squeeage. I just get friends teasing me sometimes for being such a fan, commenting on the hotness levels, etc. ("You know he's gay, right?") Well, duh. He's also *married* (or at least civil-partnered), which is equally noteworthy.

I mean, it's not like anyone ever thinks about *seriously* hooking up with the object of celebrity squeeage. Well, not anyone remotely sane, anyway. (Why am I suddenly thinking about that creepy Brent Spiner stalker lady from "Trekkies"? o_O)

[identity profile] taffimai.livejournal.com 2007-11-16 04:33 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, very much so.

[identity profile] miriam-heddy.livejournal.com 2007-11-16 08:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Sorry to butt in here, but I was just watching that performance you linked, and I realized that yeah, it matters, in that the way that I hear the songs changes. When he's singing and is alone, I imagine him singing to and about a man.

And also, it makes some songs change. Like his performance of "Anything You Can Do" with Ruthie Henshall, which he performs such that the song deconstructs masculinity as much as femininity...

Anyway--gah--nobody should be that pretty. He's just... Superman.

[identity profile] taffimai.livejournal.com 2007-11-19 04:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, no, I get that. And agree. But we were talking about people teasing her for being attracted to a gay man, and I was wondering why his being gay mattered since it's not like celebrity crushes are ever expected to come to anything.