I have always been completely incompetant at behind-the-back bra-removal.

I didn't wear one regularly until I was 22, and have never gotten the knack of slick removal (either on myself - I always have to turn it around - or on anyone else - which understandably makes girls suspicious about how gay one is).

Apparently I need remedial studies in BOTH how to be a girl and how to be a lesbian - this seems way more basic than either nail polish or oil changing, both of which I am okay at. *grins*